is it that complicated?
Monday, February 12, 2007
does giving advices and critics helped? or is it just the man and woman?
i admit i get a little edgy when man behind the wheels cant find the location which we are supposed to be and REFUSED to seek help, be it street directory or make a call. i called that ego at that point of time in the car but of course, i kept my cool when the only response i got was from the song playing, pursed lips and knitted brows.
you will find men rather adorable when they are frantically searching and looking out for signboards, and when they finally gave up, digging for the street directory or them saying, "i remembered i drove past before!"
i know it hurt somehow offend or hurt their pride to ask for help but how about men not to give feedback and trying to give solutions and but just listen with empathy and a hug would be essential.
well well well..
there're tons of self-claimed 'professional' photographers out there. not that i dont appreciate their work or things like that but approaching people from the net seems a ironic thing to do. we cant help but stare in amaze when we heard girls claiming, they are 'part-time' models. and asked which agency they belonged to, 'freelance'.
i have receieved several enquires about me being a 'model'. i am not a model or inspired to be one. i was just featured in the papers and magazines and endorsed for certain names. i have strangers asking things like, why do you do shots for hang ten? its so not you. sometimes it makes me wanna pull their hair and ask them to think but i kept my cool, BECAUSE THEY PAID ME TO DO SO. the team which manages the entire process has one common goal, is to capitvate the heart of the audience which they set.
hollas to all naive people out there, in the media world, you dont expect them to doll you the way you want or you think you look good. the make-up artist might not draw your eyes you like them to. beauty is subjective and that includes them, from their professional pespective.